When I was around 7 or 8, I worried that other kids coming over to our house would eat my chocolate in the fridge.

You said,
“Anything that is in the fridge is for all of us. So put your chocolate in your room to keep it for later.”

Lesson: You taught me to share generously and protect what’s important to me with care.

You gave me direction when I was in high school and unsure of my future.

You said,
“I don’t want you working in a factory like me and your dad, it’s hard work, and you’re smart. Study hard and get an office job.”

Lesson: You believed in my potential before I could see it myself and pushed me to aim higher.

When I was 28, living in Montreal, and you were dying of cancer, we had our final Skype call. That was the last time I saw you alive, and you said,

“I love you, son. Will you come to my funeral?”

Lesson: You showed me the depth of your love, even at the end, and reminded me to never take time for granted.

More than your words, it was your actions that shaped me.

You always put our family first – even when you had little, you gave so much.

Your smile lit up the room, especially when you were with your nieces and nephews. You found joy in connection.

You stood by Dad, even when things got tough. You showed me what commitment and loyalty really look like.

You hugged, encouraged, and guided me, not just as a parent, but as a teacher in love, sacrifice, and resilience.

These are the lessons I carry with me every day.
Thank you, Mum.

P.S. To my friends who are mums, those who still have their mums around, and those who don’t or never did — I see you. Mother’s Day can stir up all kinds of emotions.

If someone in your life played that nurturing role for you, maybe today’s the day to reach out. Take the moment, make the call, share the hug, say the thing. Every moment counts. Happy Mother’s Day, 11/05/2025.